By – Kamlianpau –
Mi diklou te’n (wrong people) thiltup diklou (wrong motive), lungput diklou (wrong attitude) leh kisakkholhna diklou (wrong preparation) toh koppih aneih nak ziak un kitenna lohsam sak uhi. Huaiziakin I kisakkholhna a dik theihna ding in kua te kitenpih ding I hiam chih a nuai ah I enzek ding.
1. Neih ki batpihlouh te neih ding: Hiai bel, anu-a pa (male/female) hihna toh kisai a I kibatpihlouh te neih ding chihna ahi. Huai tuh, numei in pasal aneih ding, pasal in numei a neih ngeingei ding ahi. Hiai tuh kitenna bawltu siam dan ahi. Adam koppih di’n Adam mah piak ahi kei a, numei huai tuh Evi piak in a om zaw (Gen 2:22-24). Neih kibang ki deihtakna leh kitenna tuh Pathian huat mahmah leh a kih petmah thil ahi. Hiai thilte ziak in Pathian in nam leh gam leh khopi te a na sumang hit-het sek hi ( Rom 1:24-27; II Pet. 2:6-7; Juda 7).
2. Koppih toh kikhen-maksa hiloute ( a siang te) neih ding: Sihna in a khen hilou, thil dang ziaka kikhen te, zi hiam pasal hiam nei dia phal ahi nawn kei uh. Huchibang te va neih tuh angkawmna ahi. Vangam kailouhna ahi. Jesu’n hiai thu mun tamkhop ah tangtak in gen hi. Sim ni- “… Kuapeuh maksa nei nawn angkawm ahi chih ka hon hilh ahi ” (Mat 5:32). “… Maksa nei nawn peuhmah leng angkawm ahi ” achi hi (Mat 19:9). “…Kuapeuh mi zi maksa nei angkawm ahi ” (Luka 16:18). Huaiziakin I damsung koppih ding I zonna ah pilvan petmah a poimoh. Theihlouh ziak hileleng, maksa khat nava neih khak ngeingei leh angkawm na hi. Hiai bang mite’n vangam a lunggulh ua leh, akikhen ding uh, ahihkeileh nupa banga a om nawnlouh ding uh ahi.
3. Zi hiam ahihkeileh pasal hi dia piching huntawk te neih ding: Kitenna tuh naupang a ding ahi kei chih I gen ta. Huaiziakin salam leh khalam kisakkholhna a piching huntawk te I neih ding ahi. Ngaihtuahna piching leh thil theihsiamna lama piching huntawk te I neih ding ahi. Nekzonna ding thila leng kisakkholhna nei mi. Puakzak lou a emotional tension pothei mi. Naupang banga lauhna haihuai khankhup mi te. Mohpuakna puakpih theih mi ban ah, nu-le-pa a kipan om khe thei dia piching mite neih ding ahi. Naupang kimawl banga, “ Kei tawp, ka ut nawn kei ” chih theih mawk ahihlouh ziak in kiteng ding te tuh mi piching ahih ding ahi. Tomchik lunggel, naupang thil deih, phur-phut, salam dinmun ki etlahna, taksa thil etna lel a kiteng te a paisuak thei kei uh.
Huaiziakin koppih ding I neihma a dotna I bawl dia poimoh te tuh– (1) Character hoih anei hia? (2) Mi theisiam leh hehpihna nei mi ahi hia? (3) Maitai leh kipakthei mi ahi hia? (4) Emotion control zou mi ahi hia? (5) Lunglutna kikalh law zen mi ka hi uhia? (6) Khankhiak dan ah kaki adjust zou taktak ding uam? (7) Kumlam pang ah leng kaki theisiam huntawk ding uam? (8) Sihtan a kitul ding khop in ka ki it taktak uhiam?. Hiaite dong masaloua kitenna in’ khristian family hilou in broken family bawl hi.
4. PATHIAN TATE MAH NEIH DING AHI: Bangchibang innkuan ahia bawl I tup? Pathian in a lam innkuan hia? Ahihkeileh amah telkhak theihlouhna innkuan? (Sam 127:1). Khristian innkuan mah bawlsawm ihihleh kua kitenpih ding? Khristian hia ahihkeileh midang? chih option a om thei diam? Pathian kipahpih theih kitenna ah mi nih kia hilou in, mi 3 a pang kha teitei. Amaute- Pathian, pasal leh numei. A kiteng tegel kia ahih ua leh, manthat tuh maban ahi mai. Huaiziakin koppih dia na zon KHRISTIAN GINOM AHI HIA? chih tuh dotna poimoh pen ahi. Dotna I bawlsa tengteng laka, na koppih KHALAM HINKHUA tuh a thupi pen leh apoimoh pen ahi. Khris a unau ahihziaka itna diktak toh ginna kibatpih kitenpih te’n innkuan ki etkolna ah tampi zousa ahi uh. Salam leh khalam kipahna in a zui dia akisik het kei ding uh.