By – Kamlianpau –
Leitung taksa hinkhua ah alou theilou kingakna (foundation) poimoh nih I nei uh. Huai kingakna nihte- Pathian khat ahi a, anihna tuh I koppih, huai tuh I zi ahihkeileh I pasal te ahi uh. Khen khat te hiai kingakna te’n damsung huihpi tui kihawt lak ah sikkip (anchor) bang in oh-kip hi. Huaiziakin koppih neih pilvan petmah ding ahi. Tampi te bel tuipi kihual lak ah Long bang in kekzak uhi (shipwreck). Tampi te’n a manphatna leh thupi dan theilou in, kisakkholhna bei in kitenna maitam azot ziak un hiai kitenna lampi (highway of marriage) ah tuahsia (accident) uhi. Thil khatpeuha lohchinna sangtak mute’n panlak ding dan (strategy) guansa diam kisakkholhna hoihtak a neih bang un, kitenna a lohchinna di’n kisakkholhna kichian apoimoh. Huai i kisakkholhna ding thilte abanban in I en suk ding uh.
1. Salam-taksa lam kisakkholhna: Ahitak in salam leh khalam khentuam vilvel theih ahi kei. Aziak bel khalam thilte taksa thilte tungtawna sepkhiak ahi uh. Pathian thugen na di’n taksa damna leh hatna a poimoh. Salam khovela sum-le-pai te Pathian nasepna ah akizang. Huaiziakin salam leh khalam thilte aki-phan khawm vek uhi ( Paunak 3:9; Matt. 19:21-22; 1 Tim 6:17-19 ). Huaiziakin koppih nei dia taksa hinkhua a leng naktaka kisakkholh a poimoh dan I en masa ding. Aziak bel hia’n nupa hinkhua leh khristian innkuan bawlna naktak in sukha hi.
(1) Taksa leh kuma pichinna: Kum hiai zahcheta piching hita chih gentan geih haksa ahi mai thei. India in mi khat kum 18 a kipan a tunglam te piching (adult) in a sim. Bible ah kum 20 a kipan a tunglam piching a sim ahi uh ( Nam 1:2-3). Bangteng hileh, I gen utbel koppih neih ahihkeileh kitenna naupang a ding ahi kei. Huaiziakin koppih neih tuh kum lama leng a piching te a ding ahi. Huai tan ngakzoh ding ahi. Naupang chik, taksa vaia kingaihna (romance) ziaka ki enlah mawka kiten ding ahi kei. Naupang thildeih banga hi hehu kawma koppih neih ding ahi kei. Hia’n bawlthak theihlouh kisikna leh siatna a tun zaw sek. Kiten nunga naupan vai taka, “ Ka tawp, ka ut nawn kei ” chih theih ahi kei.
(2) Taksa kep siangthouna lama leng kisakkholh ding ahi: Siangthou dia sapa om khristian I hihziak un, i taksa a siangthou thilte piak ding ahi (cf Rom 6:13; 12:1-2; 1 Kor 6:19-20; 2 Kor 5:10). A siat dan thei kelkul kawma za-nah/dum zatdan chi tuamtuama (tobacco in different forms) kizang te chiin hetlouh ding ahi. Hai thoh, tep thoh, muam thoh, nap thoh chihte toh ki sukkhak louh ding ahi. Khamtheih thilte, zongsat theih thilte I hinkhua a genkhak ahihlouh ding ahi. A bawm mahmah a, “ Tobacco is injurious to health/ Smoking is injurious to health; Tobacco causes painful death ” chih kigelh kelkul a, hih teitei, duh teitei chuh Khrist in a luahlouh lungtang ahi ding (cf Rom 6:12; 2 Kor 10:5; Gal 2:20; 1 Kor 3:16-17). Huaite hi chitchiatlou, damtheihna kepbitna dia nek-le-dawna ki dektheih a poimoh mahmah. Neklama ki discipline poimoh petmah hi.Damtheihna lama lungvei nemnum lou, chidam tak toh koppih nei dia kisak ding ahi. Hiai banga taksa kithuzoh taka I om leh, damtheihna ei a ahi dia, i nupa hinkhua ah gou manpha tak ahong hi ding hi (1 Tim 4:8).
(2) Lungsim ngaihtuahna a pichinna ah: Paul in Korinte kiang ah, “ Unaute aw, ngaihtuahna ah naupang kei un…” achi hi (1 Kor 14:20). Huaiziakin koppih zonna ah taksa kia hilou in lungsim ngaihtuahna a pichin a poimoh petmah. Nupa hinkhua leh innkuan sunga mohpuakna tuh naupang vaitaka zohtheih ahi kei. Huaiziakin lungsim kichian leh kiptak neih ngeingei ding ahi. Emotions thunun zou dia taksa leh lungsima pichin akul mahmah. Huchilou in zaw kiten chiil kilawpna leh kipahna abei chiang in lunglela pan zohlouh khak theih ahi. Huaiziakin ngaihtuahna lama pichin kisin ngeingei ding ahi.