By – Siam Khan Muan Guite –
Kiteenna tuh Pathian patkhiat kisinsakna mun ahihziakin, kiteenna toh kisai a dan leh dun piaktheihna thuneihna Pathian kia in nei hi. A khunsa etteh diing limlah tuh a bukim a, huai pialsanna tuh inkuan a diing a siatna tuntu ahi.
Pathian patkhiat kiteenna masapen tungtawn a bawlkhiat a hong om innkuan tuh sukbuah louh leh siangthou vilvel in hong kipan a, huchiin khalam leh khotang a thilhoih himhim a theihtham in khovel ah hong khang lian hi. Tunglam a kipan piak a om dan leh dunte a zuihlai siah uh van vualzawlnaten nuse ngeilou hi. Thukhunlui hun a kipan chiamtehna om tengteng et in, hiai in hun sawt ana daih lou ahihdan muhtheih hi. Inkuan sianthouna botlohsak diing thil a hong piangkhia pah ngal hi. Hiai ah kiteenna a buahna tuntu khenkhat I en diing.
- KITEENNA SIANTHOUNA HIH BUAHNATE
1. Zi tampi neihna/Polygamy
Sappau a polygamy kichi in pasal khat in zi nih hiam, nih sang a tamzaw hunkhat a a neihkhawmna genna ahi.
a. Polygamy pankhetu Lamek ahi (Gen. 4:17-19). Lamek tuh Kaina suan, Adam apan khang 6na ahi. Lamek nungzui in mi tampi in Pathian thukhun palzut in zi tampi neih hon chiing uhi. (Gen. 6:1, 2).
b. Zi tampi neihna tuh Pate hun leh Mosi Hun lai a Israel kumpite’n chiing toulai uhi: Pate lak ah kithang mahmah a (Gen. 16:1-16; 25:1, 6: 28:9;29:23, 28;36:2, 3); vaihawmte hun ah leng thilchiin in nei ua (Vaihawmte. 8:30); Levite lak ah leng thilchiin in om a (Vaihawmte 19:1); mi nautang in leng chiin dan in nei ua (I Sam. 1:1, 2); kumpipaten leng chiindan in nei uhi (2 Sam. 3:7; I Sam. 27:3; 2 Sam. 5:13; I Chon.14:3; I Kings 11:1-3; 2 Chron. 11:21).
c. Zi tampi neih tuh insung a kituahlouhna bulpi ahi (Gen. 16:4-6; 21:1-21; 29:21-30:24; I Sam. 1:1-8). Hebru mite tuh zaleentak a zite tampipi nei in hong om uhi. Suak numeite tuh mei (concubines) in pang ua, hiai gahsuah tuh insung khat apawl apawl a kikhenna piangsak a, nukhat suante leh a nu uh pawlkhat a om in, a dangte toh kikhenna leh kideidanna piang hi.
d. Mosi in gaakna a bawl. Mosi dan nuai ah zi tampi neih kichi theihpih (recognize) in om mahleh (Deut. 21:15), pasal khat in zi a neih theih zah diing chiangtan bawlsak in hong om hi (Deut. 17:17, Ex. 21:10, 11; Lev. 18:17, 18; 20:14).
e. Phalsak hi taktak ngeilou. Zi tampi neih kichi pen Israelte lak ah zautak in ana zang mahle uh, Pathian in khauhtak a ana khaam den ahihdan muh theih hi. Hiai thilchiin tuh thumanlouhna ziak a hong gahsuah ahi a, Jehovah Pathian apan awi-na/phalsakna om ngeilou himhim hi. Mi hoih leh dikte lak ah kiteenna tuh ngaihthupi mahmah in om hi. Hosia in zi tampi neih ana nialkalh a, zi khat toh pasal khat kiteenna tuh Jehovah Pathian leh Isrealte kizopna toh ana tehkhin hi (Hos. 2:19-23). Isai in tuh zi tampi neihna leh milim biakna thil kikim bang in ana koih hi (Isa. 57:3-8). Zawlnei Malaki in zi leh pasal kal a siangthouna naaktak in ana taangkoupih hi (Mal. 2:14-16).
2. Polyandry/Pasal tampi neihna
Polyandry kichi leng polygamy mah bang in numei khat in pasal tampi neihna ahi a, a tung a Pathian bawl kiteenna sukbuahna ahi. Tunai in leng hiai bang chiindan tuh India, Ceylon leh Tibet gam a mun khenkhat ah kizang lai hi. Hiai bang chiindan tuh Jesu leitung a hong khosak lai in leng kithang mahmah hi. Jesun Samari numei tuh hiai bang chiindan (Polyandry) a kibual hiin ana ngoh hi (Johan. 4:16-18). Hiai bang chiindan tuh mohpaih in om hi (I Cor. 7:2-5).
3. Angkawmna ziak hilou, bangziak peuh a leng Kimaakna
Tulai a kimaakna piangsakte lak a alangsaal mahmah tuh “bangziak peuh” (for every cause) a kikhen-kimaakna ahi (Mt. 19:3-9; Deut. 24:1, 2). Hia’n Jesu thusinsak, “Ke’n zaw ka hon chi ahi, kuapeuh, kingaihna ziak hilou a, zi maa a zidang nei tuh angkawm ahi: maaksa nei peuhmah leng angkawm ahi” chih tangtak in kalh hi. Hiai in kingaihna ziaklou ngal, bangmah dang ziak a kimaak phal ahikei chih hon sinsak hi. Chiamteh ni!
Thukhunthak a koppih toh kikhentheihna diing a phalna omsun Jesu sinsakna tuh, angkawmna ziak keleu ahi. Angkawmna lou bangmah dang ziakin kimaak theihna a om himhimkei hi. Huaiziakin, angkawmna ziak lou thil dang ziak a kimaak theih dia ngaihna in, bangziak peuh a leng kimaak theih ahi chihna suaksak a, nupa kizopna neemsak a, a kuitung kiteenna leitung ah beisak diing hi.
Miseelkhah khenkhatte’n Korin khua a koppih Kristian hong suah ma ua ana kiteengsa, khat pen Kristian hong suah ziak a, ginglou pen in a paisan leh a tuam omtheihna diing phalna a piak pen kimaak theihna bang in kaikawi ua, angkawm ziak lou a leng kimak theihna dia phalna bang in gen uhi (1Korin 7:10-12). Hiai tuh laisiangthou sinsakna kaihkawina ahi a, thil mulkimhuaitak ahi.
- KRISTIAN KITEENNA SIANGTHOU BAWL DIING A KISAKKHOLHNA
NA KOPPIH DIING TEELDIK IN
Miteng in kiteenna lunggulh theihna neithei mahleh, mitengteng in kimanna toh kitenna maituah vek lou uhi. Kisakhawl deuh a kiteenna maituahte toh kiteenna in a tunkhop mohpuaknate thei masa lou a kiteenna mawk maingalte lohchindan kibang theilou hi. Kiteenna tuh naupangte a diing ahi kei! Mi piichingte a dia bawl ahi. Hinkhua a thutanna mihing in a lak teng lak a khawkngaih huai penpente lak a khat tuh koppih diing teelna ahi. Kiteenna tuh damsung daih diing kizopna leh sakhat hihna ahihmanin, koppih diing pilvangtak a teel diing ahi.
Koppih teelkhelhna in kiteenna sawtlou kal lel daihsak a, a hunlou a kikhen-kimaakna tun hi. Kristian khat in Kristian lou midangte koppih dia a neih thildik mah ahi diam? Sakhua kibanglou mite hiai kizopna a hong lut chiang ua bang chi diing? Saptuam in huchi bang a kiteenpolhna khaam diing mah ahi diam? Thugentute’n huchi bangte tungtang bang chi gen diing? Hiaite dotna poimoh mahmah ahi a, I niteng hinkhua a I insung hon sukha thute ahi.
Sahkhua tuh kipumkhatna tuntu ahih bang in kikhen kibalna tuntu leng ahi. Bible a vaukholhnate en mah dih! Pate hun ah kiteenpolhna khaam in ana om hi (Deut. 7:1-3). Ezra hunlai in Isrealte a kiteenpolhna uh bawldik a, a koppihte uh koihkhe dia thupiak in ana om uhi (Ezra 9 & 10). Pathian lemsakpih hilou Israelte lak ah Israelte hilou koppih nei a om uhi.
Hiai thu ngaihtuah masa ni. “Ginglou mite toh kituak loupi a hakkol paw khawm in omkei un…” (2 Cor. 6:14-17). Tuni a I dot zawk leh awlmoh zawk diing a hoih tuh, “Kristian hilou khat koppih a neih khelhna a hi diam?” chih sang in, “Kristian hilou khat koppih a neih ziak a “buaina piangtheite leh laisiangthou a vauhilhna kigente” limsakna lam ahizaw hi. Kiteenpolhna toh kisai in buaina huaisetak leh vaukholhna nasaktak ana om hi. Khalam mit a hak kawm in, ngaihtuah detdet inla, thutanna la in. Tua na thutanna in na leitung hinkhua omdan diing leh tawngtawn mun a honpi diing ahi chih thei in. A himhim in Catholic saptuam mi khat koppih a nei diing in kingaihtuah mah dih! Na koppih toh na kaal uah hiai a nuai a kibatlouhna hong piang pah diing hi: –
Catholic Saptuamten kiteenna toh kisai a gindan uh, Birth Control toh kisai a gin dan uh. Na tate Catholic saptuam a kikhawm sak diing maw? Kiteenna program vai ah—Kua pen kikhopna mun a kiteng diing? Amasa in na inkuan kisiam diing dan en in: Inkuan kikhopna la? Saptuam nasep a kihelna ah la? Biakna program ah la? A tuam tuak a na kikhop ziak un, na damsung in na koppih toh a tuamtuak in hun bang zah na zang kha ua? Hiai bang dinmun a omna nupa hinkhua lohching I chi thei diam? Na tate ngaihsun nawn mah dih? Sahkhua a kichiilna leh kimakaihna ah bang a chi dia? (Neh.13:23, 24). Amah na koppih la bang a chi dia?
KITEENNA THUKHUN A GINOM DIING A KIPIAKKHIATNA (COMMITMENT) HOIHTAK NEI MASA IN
A sianthouna bang a kiteenna kepbitna diing in kipumpiakna (commitment) kiptak mai neih masak a kul hi. Pathian in kiteenna a bawl in mihingte nopsakna leh kipahna bukim a piak nop ziak a a patkhiat ahi. Pathian in a thilsiam tengteng a en a, hoih A sa mahmah hi (Gen.1:31, 1:10,12,18,21,25). A thilsiamte en a lungkim mahmah hinapi in, hoih asak hetlouh leh a kimlou khat omlai, “Pasal amah kia a a om a hoih kei” chih hon ngaihtuah a, huchiin, “a kituahpih diing panpihtu/huhtu Ka bawlsak diing” chi in huai a hoihlou leh bukimlou bukimsaktu diing in “NUMEI” ana siam hi.
Pathian in huai kiteenna hoih asak mahmah kia hilou in, huai nupate kizopna (nu-le pa kal a kipolhna) leng kiteenna huangsung a zat ahih chiang in hoih sa mahmah hi. Pathian in Adam a khim ihmu a, a ihmut kal in a nakguh lakhia in huai pasal apan a lakkhiak nakguh apan in numei a bawl hi. Adam a hong khanglou a, a nih un vuaktang in a om tuak ua, himahleh nupa ahih ziak un a zum tuankei uhi (Gen.2:21-25).
Hiai ah numei siam a omna san tuh ‘pasal panpihtu diing, a kituahpih diing’ chih ahi lai hi. Panpihtu chih kia hilou in, a kituahpih-panpihtu chih ahih ziakin Pathian in a siam kiteenna tuh kilemloupi kipawng gawmna hilou in, kilem-kituaktak a khosa khawm dia ana geeldan ahi. Sappau a ‘suitable/compatible helper’ kichi tuh a pau bul zaw Hebrew in ‘neged’ kichi a, huai bel a ‘mailam’ hiam a ‘kibuptuahpih’ hiam, thilkhat peuh phelnih nei a kibawlte, a phelnih tuak ua kibuptuah thei; a hong kibuptuah chiang ua kituak chet dia lepsate genna toh kibang chi uhi.
Huaiziakin numei leh pasal hong kiteen chiang un nih hita lou ua, khat hong hita uhi. Mihing nih khat a hong suahna diing un kibawllem tuahtuah diing, a sauluate satkhiat diing, a tomluate kaihsau diing a phelnih uah om tuaktuak diing hi. Tua bang a bawllemna hong om chiang in kituaktak a kibuptuah a kisiin tuah nupa hong suak uhi.
Numei leh pasal kal a nopsakna omthei teng, nupa kipolhna leh lawm hoih kithuahpih diing tuh nupa hihna sung ah phaktawp nei lou a phalsak ahi. Pathian in pasal amah kia a om hoih a saklouh, a hoih a A bawldikna tuh kiteenna ahi. Huaiziakin a siamtu deihdan a hiai kiteenna a I hong lut chiang in nopna leh kipahna tehpih theih louh toh ana kitunkhawm hi.
Haksapi leh puakgik bang mai a kining tuah leh kichimtaak tuah vungvung kawm a nupa hinkhua zang I hih louhna diing in kiteenna thukhun in a ngiatte ahi bangbang a zui diing a kisakkholhna a poimoh hi. Tua bang ahihlouh chiang in nupa hinkhua pen kigawtna bang in kilangh a, ‘kikhen dia lah Pathian dan in phallou a, kikhenlouh dia lah haksa lua, nuamlou lua’ chi kawmkawm a phatuamngaihna ziak a kiteng geeigawi chih tuh thil omtheitak ahi.
THUSITNA
Kiteenna tuh Pathian in a khawkngaih mahmah kisinsakna munpi ahihmanin, thukhun toh siamkhawm hi. Leitung a kizopna om tengteng lak a kippen leh toupen ahih banah, thukhun a kaankhop ahihmanin a siangthou ahi. Kiteenna a kikaankhawmna diing a Pathian thukhun tuh hotdamna kalbi leh biakna dan diing a thupiakte bang a khauh ahi uhi.
Pathian thukhun kiteenna dan bang lou a om tupna leh phengphitna in zi leh pasal kal ah haksatna tu damsung mahmah in tun a, tagah-meigong tampi piangkhesak a, keplouh-zuunlouh insung leh kisinsakna tasam inkuan pung hulhul hi. Hia’n khotang leh gamsung a siatna, namte pukna leh Pathian thangpaihna samkhia hi.
Khovel vaihawmte leh mihing thupiak toh Pathian thupiak hong kiphutkhak leh, tua bang hun leh mun ah Pathian thupiak pom inla, huai kia mah zuizaw in. Huai tuh a siangthou kiteenna kepbitna diing thukhun omsun ahi.