By – Thongginlian Gwite –
Mihingte a siamlai in Pathian in numei leh pasal a siam (Mattt 19:4). Gendan dang in zi leh pasal diing in a siam hi. Inkuan bawl a tate leh tute nei diing a siam ahi uh. Huaiziakin nidanglai in pasal neidia tanu a khak chiang un tate/tute tampi neiding in vualzawlna toh nu leh paten a khakhe zel uhi (Gen 24:60). Mi masa Adam leh Evi nupa ahi ua, tate nei in tute leng a nei uhi. Amau hun apan tuhun tan in inkuan huchibang in kisuangtou hi. Pathian in siamneeltak a ana geel inkuan in tuni tan in masawn zel. Detdou mahmah khovel hoihna diing a kingakna leh suangphum INKUAN ahi. Huchimah bang in gamsung siatna diing leng setan vanzat inkuan mite mah ahi uh.
2. KINAK KIPATNA
Inkuan kivaihawm diing dan toh kisai in Paul in Ephesa saptuamte laithon a khak ah Pa dinmun, nu dinmun, nu leh pa dinmun leh tate dinmun chiangkuangtak in, a mohpuak (duties) utoh, ana gelh hi. Pasal (husband) in a zi (wife) a it diing (Eph. 5:25, 33). Zi in a pasal panpih (Gen 2:18) leh zahtak diing. Nu leh paten a tate uh TOUPA thuzohna leh hilhna a kep diing (Eph 6:4). Tate’n a nu leh pate uh thuman diing (Eph 6:1). Hiai teng banah, insung makaih diing pasal (father/husband) ahi (Eph 5:23). Hiai bang a kivaihawm, laphuah siam in ‘vangam naipen’ achih, insung nuam ahi. Huchibang insung ah itna, lemna, muanna leh bitna om a michih lungkimna toh khawsa hi. Insung nuam mite en leh etton ahi a, setan muhdah leng ahi. Huchibang insung suksiat sawm a phevelvul setan in pawlam mite sang in insung mite zang in susenak hi. Zi leh pasal kina sak; kikhensak. Tate leh nu leh pa kina sak (kikhensak). Tate kina sak. Insung suse diing in insung mite a dinmun uh hamhaihsak in tokse nak hi.
3. KINA BANGCHI PHELH DING
Inkuan kinakna phelh diing insung mite mah ahi. Pawlam mi poimohna lianpi om mahleh tuni a thupi toh kisai i suina ah insung mite dinmun poimohna taklang diing I hi. Amau panlaktheihna leng genvek zou diing I hikei. Phatuam diing a ka upman in Bible pansan in bangzah hiam taklat uthuai kasa.
A). KUMPI DAVID SINSAKNA
Israel kumpi in David kum 40 lal a, a damsung nite kum 70 ahi. Huaisung in thil nuam leh haksa tamtak na tuak a, palhsuah a chiamteh ahi. Zuihneelsa (experience) hau mahmah ahihman in, David thugen limsak in amah apan zilni. Aman “Heh unla, khial kei un; Na lupna tung uah dai dide unla, na lungtang un kingaihtuah un” a chi (Be angry, and do not sin. Meditate within your heart on your bed, and be still. Selah) (Psalms 4:4).
i). DAI DIDE UN
Kina a hehna ziak a khiallou diing a thumanpha a genlai in David in ‘na lupna tung ah dai dide un’ a chi hi. Lupna, michih tawldamna mun ahi. Thatawl leh gimchiang a lunggulh pen ahi, lungkham a dah chiang in leng lupna tung mah kinaih. Lupna tung a hang nilouh diing a sinsak I hikei a, lupna tung a dai dide diing a sinsak I hizaw. Khuak sou vivit thoihdamna diing a mipil thugen ahi.
Zi khat in doctor kiang ah, ‘ka pasal heh pahpah, bang loh diing ka hia?’ chi doctor ava dot leh, ‘Na pasal heh ahi chih na theih chiang in nakam dim in tui dawn inla, a hehlai teng na kamsung ah muam nilouh in. A heh nawnlouh chiang in sekhe lechin phamai diing ahi’ chih dawnna a za. Hun bang tan hiam zoh in ava hoh nawn a, doctor kiang ah ‘Lamdang na e! Bang chidan a hiai tui maimai in hehna beisak thei hiam?’ ava chi hi. Doctor in a kiang ah ‘tuisik in hihtheihna bang mah anei kei. Nakam sung a tui omlai teng pau theilou chin a, huai sung a na pasal ana lungdam’ achi hi. Hiai zi in a kamtam ziak in a pasal hehsak khanak ahihdan kilang; kamdim a tui a muam chiang in pau theilou a, huaisung a a pasal lungdam zel hihtuak hi. Paunakte in kamsim manphatdan hichiin a chiamteh hi “Kuapeuh kamsim a, paulou in buainate a kipan a kha a kemhoih hi” (Paunakte 21:23).
ii). KINGAIHTUAH UN
Kinak/kisel (heh) lai in kihai gamtat bungbung. Kamsia leh huhamtak a gamtat khak theih hun ahi. Huaiziak in kidek zohlouh ziak in thil setawp genkhak/hihkhak theih. Huaiziak in David mah in, “Heh tawpsan unla, thangpaihna taisan un, kilungkhamsak nuam dah un, thilsia a tunnak hi” (Sam 37:8) a chi hi. Mi a heh chiang in mihai bang ahi a, ngaihtuahna mumallou. Thilsia leh thilhoih ngaihtuah manlou. Hehlai a hai gamtat huaise lua ahihman in kiven leh kidek a thoihdamna diing a damdawi hoihpen a suak hi. David in ‘na lungtang un kingaihtuah un’ a chi hi.
Hun haksa a kingaihtuahna dia hoih tampi a om ngei ding. Ka kampau leh gamtat hoih hia? Hehlou hileng ka kampau leh gamtadan thil zumhuai ahi diam? Kei leh ka inkuante a diing in a hoih diam? Ka saptuampihte muh in a kilawm diam? Paul ka dinmun a ding hileh bang a chi dia? Jesu kei dinmun a ding hileh bang a loh dia? chihte a ngaihtuah (meditate) hoih diing hi. Huaiban in, eimah pilna sang a Pathian thutak mah, hiai hun haksa a, michih kingakna ahih gige diing ahi, “Pathian limsakloute hoihsak bang a om ngeilou, Mikhialte lampi a leng dinglou, Musitte tutphah a leng tu ngeilou mi a hampha hi; a kipahna tuh TOUPA dan ahi zaw a, Adan thute sun leh zan in a NGAIHTUAH ngitnget hi” (Sam 1:1-2). A poimohpen leh deih huaipen ahihleh hun haksa leh nuam ah, thumna pellou a atel ngeingei diing ahi, “Huchiin, hihdam a na om theihna diing un na khelhnate uh thupha kitawi tuah unla, kithumsak tuah zel un. Mi diktat thumna in thil thupitak a hih zel hi” (Jacob 5:16).
B). SAWLTAK PAUL SINSAKNA
Pathian mizat, Sawltak Paul nungzuipite lak a tallang mahmah laisiam ahi. Pharisai mi ahi a dan lam a expert ahi. A siamna leh pilnate Khris lalgam a honglut chiang in manpha tak in zang a, a damsung teng huai Lalgam siangthou a diing in kizang bei hi. Amah thugen limsak in, huai apan in zilni. “Heh unla, Khial kei un; Na hehna uh ni in tumpih kei hen, diabol mun awn kei un” (Be angry, and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil) (Eph 4:26-27).
i). SAWTPI HEHKEI UN
“Heh unla, Khial kei un; Na hehna uh ni in tumpih kei hen, diabol mun awn kei un” (Eph 4:26-27). David in leng hehna a khaam kei a, Paul in leng a khaam kei: heh kei un a chi kei; heh unla khial kei un a chi tuaktuak uh. Laisiangthou ah Pathian bang leng a heh hun a om. A mite thulimlouhnate ziak in heh thei mahmah. TOUPA Jesu leng a heh. Huchiin ‘Biakbuk a summet bawlte a delhzak’ hi (Matt 21:12-13). Hehna mihing ngeina dan khat ahi. Thutak deih a hehna, hehna hoih ahi. Hoihna diing a heh theilou, heh ngamlou thil deihhuai ahi hetkei. Dawilok mi omdan ahi.
Hehna toh kisai a Paul apan zillai masa diing hiai ahi, ‘na hehna uh ni in tumpih kei hen.’ Gendan dang in, sawtpi heh kei un chihna ahi. Paul sinsakna a manpha mahmah. Buaina peuhmah sawt a kidiah leh kikai-awk nuam a, suk vaiveng haksa upaten a chi uh. Hehna leng huchibang ahi. Tuni a buaina, tuni mah a sukfel thilhoih ahi. Huai tuh insung buaina (kinakna), saptuam mite kinakna, gamsung mite kinakna leh khovel mite kinakna ziak a hehnate a huap vek. Adiak in Kris in a saptuam mite khelhna thupha tawi a kiniam khiak A deihdan hon sinsak ahi. Mahni dikna nangawn a leng kiniamkhiakna toh a diklou pen ui-ek khusak selou a ngaihdam kizil thilhoih ahi. Mihing hatna leh siamna ziak a hihzoh diing hilou maithei, himahleh, hon hihhattu Jesu Khris tungtawn in ahithei hi, “Amah hon hihhattu ah thil teng teng ka hihthei hi” (Phil 4:13) Paul in a chih mahbang in.
Nu khat in a kam a sawtlou tui a muam sung a pasal hehna daithei ahihleh pasalten leng tui muam zelzel dia hoih ahi. Pasal a dia damna numei a diing a leng damna. Bang mah dang gen I hi kei a, hehlai a paulou a om damna ahi chinuam I hi. Khiallou diing a thilhoih hih ahi. Dailou miten kinakna saupi pehlohsak nak ua, sawtpi hehte amau leh amau gawtna a kipilut ahi zaw uhi.
ii). DIABOL MUN AWNKEI UN
“Heh unla, Khial kei un; Na hehna uh ni in tumpih kei hen, diabol mun awn kei un” (Eph 4:26-27). Hiai a thumal kizang ‘diabol’ (Paite), English ah ‘devil’ ahi. Thumal hong kipatna Greek pau ah ‘diabolos’. English a ‘diabolos’ hong kileh khiak chiang in 35 vei devil (diabol) chiin kilet a, 2 vei False accuser (Ngohtu taklou) chiin kilet, 1 vei Slanderer (Gensiat hat) chiin kilet khia. Khiatna chithum bang pha mah leh ‘diabol’ leh a vanzatte genna in zattheih tuak diing in kiletkhia hi. Kinakna/kilanna himhim suk fellouh a sawt diah ahihchiang in setan mun awnkha suak a, saupi pehloh in buaitheih hi. Thil tampi sesak. Aban (Ephesate 4:29-32) i etsuk leh diabol leh a vanzat hunkhop Paul in a minloh hi. Huaite michih in paihkhiak (delete) diing a deihhuai a sakthu leng Paul in a gelh hi. Hiaite Kamsia (Corrupt word), Khaatna (Bitterness), Thangpaihna (Wrath), Hehna (Anger), Hanna (Clamor) leh Gensiatna (Evil speaking) ahi uh. Setan vanzat ahi ua, khiakna I gente dungzui in hiaite mah leng setan ahi uh.
C. PANKHAWM HATNA AHI
Diabol mun awnlou diing a panlak theihna poimoh dang khat ahihleh inkuan a Pa (father/husband) a mohpuakna semsuah zou diing a insung miten panpih ahi. Pa dinmun, dinmun haksa ahi. Pa kia in sepzoh diing vual hilou. Huaiziak in panpihtu muanhuai, numei, Pathian in a pia hi (Gen 2:18). A melma kinakpih diing hiam ahikei. A thuneih khum diing leng ahi kei. Simmoh bawl a zi in a pasal kiang a ‘dai o’ a chih gaihgaih diing leng ahi kei. Huai naksang in zahtak diing a thupiak ahi. Ngetna ahi kei.
Pa mohpuakna tomkim: Inkuan humbittu (Eph 5:25-29), Azi it diing (Eph 5:25), Azi sang a Pathian itzaw diing (Eph 1 Jno 4:7), Inkuan makai (leader) ahi (1 Tim 3:5), Insung vaktu (provider) ahi (1 Tim 5:8). Insung’ pa mohpuakna amah kia liangkou a insung miten a ngak diing uh ahikei; a puakpih diing uh ahi. Panpih theihna hoihpen tuh pa a diing a insung mite Setan a panlouh teitei ahi. Hoih deihlou peuhmah setan/setan vanzat ahi. Insung mi pa humbit diing himahleh, humbit utlou tuh thilhihtheihna sangpen neitu in leng humbit theilou diing. Pasal in azi it diing a midang teng sang in mahni zi a limsakzaw diing. It taaklou numei khat it diing ahikei a, Pathian thupiak zui ahihman in numeisia it hilou in Pathian it ahi. Pa makai sak theilou inkuan Bible ah leng a om. Eli taten apa uh thugen a limsaklouh ziak un hamsia a tuak uh. Makaitheilou in a koih uh. Eli tate chih a om zumhuailua diing ahihman in pilvang ni, nu leh pa thumang a nahloh pek dingdiang ding ahihman in! Inkuan vaktu Pa mohpuakna, amah mohpuak ahi. Himahleh, piching zi leh taten amau khut, khe leh khuak zang in Pa a nungzuih diing uh. Huchia pankhawmna ziak in lohchinna piang dia, thu leh la ah demkailou, Pathian deihdan diig inkuan hiding. Huchi mahbang in zi/nu leh taten in leng a mohpuak chiat uh a zohtheihna diing ua insung mite pankhawm poimohdan gendau theih ahikei.
4. THUKHITNA Thumal tampi zang in inkuan kina bang chi phelh (vaiveng sak) diing chih thupi kon gelh denduan a. Theihsiam huailou khop a saukha ahihkhak diing ka lau. Genchiang utselua a kikai-awkkha ahihding leng lauh huai kasa. Bang teng hileh chiamteh diing a deihhuai ka sak ahihleh David chih mahbang in ‘heh hun a om khak chiang in leng khelhna a hon pilut louhna diing in pilvang ni’. Huai ding in kinak chiang in ‘DAIH DIDE’ hun theih a poimoh. Siatna hon tutma in KINGAIHTUAH a TOUPA kiang a THIL BANGKIM tun diing in kiman ni (Phil 4:6). Huai banah, Paul chih mahbang in sawtpipi hehlou diing leh diabol mun nengkha leng awnlou diing in chihtakna toh i pang diing uh. Huai thilhoih hih diing a hon theihpih Pathian, nidanglai a Israelte kiang a ‘kon vuallel sakkei diing a, kon taisan kei diing’ (Deut 31:6) chipa ei Pathian leng ahi ngal a!