By – Siam Khan Muan Guite –
September ni 16, 2024 ni a thuthang kasim leh, “… Uttar Pradesh state sung a om Agra khopi ah “Numei khat a pasal toh a kiteen khit uh ni 40 sung in nawkiik a, a pasal a maa…” kichi thu ka simkha hi. Bang ziak a hiai numei in a pasal huchitel a kin a maa hiding hiam chih theih utna toh aban ka simbeh leh, amaakna ziak tuh a pasal in kisil ding thudon lou a, kha khat a khatvei/nihvei khawng kisil zel a, botloh salua a, a maak ahihdan chiangdeuh in kigelh hi. Hiai thu in lungsim hon khoih mahmah a, midang Kristian hilou milim biate nangawn in leng lamdang sa hial diing un ka gingta hi.
Ahihhang in Kristiante lak ah leng Kiteenna Sianthouna Pathian deihdan a kepbit ahihken zaw Judate’n Jesu kiang a, “bangziak peuh in mi’n a zi maak a siang hia?” (Matt.19:3) chia dotna ana bawl bang un, bangziak peuh, thil hou chikchik lel a leng kimaakna saptuam sung ah ahong pumdim diing hi.
Kiteenna chi a laisiangthou in a hon sinsak tuh moulop ni hiam, kiteenna puankhiat a om ni kia hilou in, kiteengsa nupate kizopna leh kiteenna hinkhua genna ahi.
Sianthouna I chih chiang in kheklamdang theihlouh, a omsa dan, a kisiamsa dandan a zat diing, mihingte ut leh dah a suklamdang theihlouh chihna ahi.
Kiteenna hong kipatna, kiteenna omzia, kiteenna omsan, kiteenna toudan/kipdan leh kiteenna a thukhun omte tengteng bawltu Pathian ahihman in asiangthou hi. Huaiziakin, kiteenna in a tunkhop thukhunte mihingte bawllem hiam, suklamdang theih ahikei. Hiaite khatkhat in kichian zawsem in I en diing.
Amasa in hiai thulu, “Kiteenna Sianthouna” poimohdan uangtak a taklat poimoh kasa hi.
A khatna: Kiteenna huangsung a om thupiakte mahni lemtaan dan a zuih diing hilou a, zuih ngeingei diing thupiak ahihziak in kiteenna a lut diingte’n kiteenna sianthouna a theihchet masak uh a poimoh a, huai theichian masa loupi a kiteenna maituah ahihchiang in lohsam sek hi. Hiai toh kisai dan leh dun piak a omte zahlouhna tuh kiteenna bawltu Pathian zahlouhna ahi. (2Thess.1:7-9).
A nihna: Kiteenna in a puaksuah thil thupitakte ziakin a sianthouna I sin a poimoh— thil hoih leh thil gilou ah kiteenna in a tut theih a om tuaktuak hi. A kiteeng pawl nihte- mou leh moupa tung ah kiteenna in thil thupitak puaksuah nei hi. Mi a hong kiteen chiang in, huai kiteenna ah vangam leh meidiil cheplawkna omthei tuaktuak hi. Kiteenna in kua hiam khat mihinna kipsak leh khauhsak seem diing in na seem thei a, a lehlam ah kua hiam khat mihinna kitamzaan sak in vaivut bang in kisegawp sak thei veve hi.
A thumna: Kiteenna in sakhat hihna tungtawn a hong piangkhia naupangte a diing in poimohna liantak nei hi. Kiteenna polam ah leng ta leh nau piangthei mahleh (Pathian phalna bel hilou in), Nupa ki–itna bouruak a hong khangkhia naupang in itna mah hong nei diing ua, huchi lou a kihuatna leh kinakna inkuan bouruak a khangkhia naupang in huchi bang mihinzia mah hong khanletpih diing uhi (Ephesians 6:1-4).
A liina: Kiteenna in a kiteeng mou leh moupa inkuante naktak in sukha hi. A kiteeng nupate kiteenna a buaina hong om chiang in a nu leh pa (sungta-putu) leh inkuanpihte naaktak in sukha hi. Lunggim-sinkhamna tun a, hun tamtak ah zahlakna leh maizumna tuntu hithei hi.
A ngana: Kiteenna in khotang leh gam leh nam dinmun naktak in sukha hi. Nu leh pa kithangpolhna huaisetak ziakin Pathian in Sodom leh Gomorrah khuate vut leh vai ana suaksakta hi. Mitengteng in a hoih leh hoihlou khensat theihna a neihna sunggil ah hiai nupa kal kipolhna thu om hi. Namte tuh a mite lungtang buahna leh siangthouna ziakin vawksang hiam kaihniam in om ua, huai lungtang siangthou leh buah neihtheihna a miten kiteenna a ngaihzam leh a zahtakdan ah kinga mahmah hi.
Inkuan kingakna suangphum tuh a sianthouna bang a kiteenna zahlouh ziakin suksiat in om hi. A diak in tumlam gamte ah kiteenna ngaihzamna uang kholdiak a, ei gam leng hiai thu ah a siang tuan kei hi. Hiai tuh namte leh gamte pukna ma ah a pai gige hi. Khovel ah Pathian leh a thu siangthou bangmahlou a ngaihna a uang mahmahta a, America gam ah niteng a kiteenna lai ki pekhia toh kimaakna lai kipekhia kikim phial kichi hi.
A gukna: A sianthouna bang a kiteenna theihchian leh zahtak ahihlouh chiang in, bangziak peuh, huai tuh; kisil gige louhziak bang, neek leh dawn duhdan kibatlouh ziak bang, lunglut lam kibatlouh ziak bang, kinaak khak ziak bang, sum leh paii ziak bang, sungh leh maakpa kikal lemlouhna ziak bang, lup hun kibatlouh ziak leh khovel a thil hou penpen a I ngaihte ziak khawng in baihlam takin kimaakna piangthei hi.
A sagihna: Numei leh pasal kipolhna ngaihzamna tuh koipeuh ah uang mahmahta hi. Kong lai a numei vuaktang phial a vialvak diing khop leh huai bang mite etnuamsa pasal pumdim hi. Huchi bang khovel leh ahuihkhua a khosa I hihman un, hiai thilte’n I theihlouhkal in nupa kal kipolhna baihlamtak a muhna leh ginom louhna hon tun hi. Mobile phone tung tawn a zahmoh lim kikhak tuah leh zahmoh thute thaangtak a kikhak tuahtheihna khovel ahihtak man in, hiai in nupa kal nasatak in hon tokbuai kha hi.
A giatna: Kiteenna omsan leh a thiltupte lak a khat tuh chi khah diing ahi (Genesis1:28). Khovel ah mi khenkhat in hiai Pathian thiltup neu ngaih in, kiteeng napi “ta” deihlou in om mawk uhi. Mi khenkhat in lah kiteenna polam ah tate pawng neih uhi. Hiai tuh Pathian zakdah mahmah khelhnate lak a khat ahi.
A kuana: Kiteenna in a thiltup dang khat ahihleh tate keem a khanletsakna mun leh Pathian deihlam kisinsakna mun dia bawl ahi. Nupa kizopna in tua bang bouruak bawl thei a, a lehlam ah susetu leh dalhzaak saktu zong hithei hi.
A sawmna: Kiteenna in a thiltupte lak a khat tuh numei leh pasal kipolhna thanghuai a ginomlouhna apan kiveenna diing ahihdan Paul in Korin khua a misiangthoute kiang ah Kha pi in theisak hi. A koppih in nupa kal taksa utna lam a poimohna a neih leh kiphaltak a a kipiakkhiak tuahna mun diing tuh kiteenna huangsung ahi (Ephesians 5:22-32 and I Peter 3:7).
A sawm-leh-khatna: Kiteenna in a ngiat kipumpiakna/kipiakkhiatna (commitment) thupitak om ahih dan theih kul hi. Kiteeng I chih pen thu neuchik hilou a, kipiakkhiatna leh eimah a thuchiam lenkip diing a khensatna lianpi toh kikaankhawm ahi. Khovel mihingte’n hiai kiteenna tuh thil neu chikchik ziak khawng a bohtan a, kikhen theih lel dan in ngaihsun uhi. Huaiziakin, kiteenna mihingte kithukimna (human contract) bang a ngaihna leh, ut hunhun a a kiteengtute leh indongta kithukimna peuh a suktawp theih bang a ngaihna om in, Kristian kichite lak nangawn ah leng tuabang ngaihzamna uang mahmahta hi.
A sawm-leh-nihna: Kiteenna pen thukhun toh kikaankhawm midang khat toh a nuam a haksa, nat leh sat tuah hun, lungkham hun leh kipah hun leh hun haksa tawpkhawk tuah hun a leng kitaisan lou diing a THUKHUNNA ahihdan theihtel kiphamoh hi. Kiteenna thukhun bohse mite Pathian in paakta lou hial hi (Malaki 2 :13-16).
A sawm-leh-thumna: Kiteenna in gam leh nam tanpha sukha hi. Hiai ziakin kiteennna tuh miteng muh a puankhiak thilhoih ahi.
Kiteenna a lut koppih tamtakten kiteenna toh kikaankhawm mohpuakna leh masawnna diing a kiteenna siamtu deih dan thei lou ua, a sianthouna bang a kepbitlouh a om in, a kiteenna uh kuitung lou hi.
Hiai a tung a thute lungtang a vom kawm in Kiteenna Sianthouna thu I sin ding.
KITEENNA SIANTHOUNA
- KITEENNA TUH PATHIAN A KIPAN AHIHZIAKIN A SIANGTHOU HI
Kiteenna tuh mihing pilna leh poimohsak ziak a hong piangkhia ahikei a, Pathian in siamchil a thilsiam tengteng a siamzoh a, mihingte a diing a Amah deihlam kisinsakna mun (institution) diing a a bawlkhiat ahih ziakin a siangthou hi.
“Toupa Pathian in nuamtak in Adam a ihmu sak a, huchi in a ihmuta a; a nakguh khat a la a, a tang diing in sa a pang dimsak hi. Toupa Pathian in Adam apan a lak nakguh apan in numei a bawl a, Adam kiang ah a hon pita hi. Adam in, “Hiai hialzaw ka guh a kipan guh, Ka sa a kipan sa ahi. Pasal a kipan lakkhiak a hihziak in, Numei, chih diing ahi” a chi hi. Huaiziak in, pasal in a nu leh a pa a paisan dia, a zi ah a belh diing. Huchi in sa khat a hong hita diing uhi. Adam leh a zi vuaktang ahi tuak ua, a zum tuankei uhi.” (Gen.2:21-24).
Hiai a tung a laisiangthou taang pansan a nei in Jesu’n kiteenna tuh a tung a Pathian bawl ahi chih namkip hi. “…A tung a kipan amau bawlpa’n numei leh pasal a bawl leh, hiai ziak in pasal in a nu leh a pa a paisan diing a, a zi a len diing. Huchi in, a nih un sa pumkhat a hong hita diing uh, a chi chih na simkei ua hia? Huchi in nih ahita kei ua, sa pumkhat ahi zawta uhi. Huaiziak in Pathian in a gawmsa mihing in khenkei hen chi in, a dawng hi.” (Matt.19:4-5).
- KITEENNA TUH A SIANGTHOU PASAL KHAT LEH A SIANGTHOU NUMEI KHAT KIGAWMNA AHIH ZIAKIN A SIANGTHOU HI
Kiteenna tuh a siangthou numei khat leh a siangthou pasal khat in sakhat hiding a kithukim a, a bawl uh ahihman in, Pathian in leng pompih hi. A siangthou numei leh pasal tuh maaksa hilou, koppih nei nailoute leh koppih neisa a zi hiam, pasal hiam in a sihsansa-te genna ahi. Hiai kizopna tuh a kiteeng nupa-te toh Pathian thukhunna ahi a, mihing-te bohtan theih ahikei hi (Gen.24-25, Matt. 19:6-9). Numei khat leh pasal khat ki-it tuah a, Pathian it tuakte’n kiteenna lohching bawl khia uhi. Kiteenna lohching tehna tuh a touna/kipna leh huai kiteenna in a bawl khiat inkuan sung a thukhun in a ngiat mohpuakna/tanmunte buchingtak a sepsuahna ah kinga hi.
Kiteenna hilou kizopnate: Kiteenna hilou kizopna leng ana om a, a nuai ah I taklang hi.
- Numei leh numei hiam, pasal leh pasa hiam omkhop-teenkhopna (co-habitation, live-in)
- Maaksa khat toh teenkhopna
- Mihing leh ganhing kiteeng
- Zawlgai
Bangzahta in hiai a tung a kizopna dikloute tungtawn in omkhop tum mah le uh, Pathian mai ah nupa ahi ngeikei ua, nupa bang a pom ahi theikei diing uhi. Khelhna kihhuai tak ahizaw hi.
- KITEENNA TUH KRIST LEH A SAPTUAM KIZOPNA TOH KIBANG KIZOPNA AHIH ZIAKIN A SIANGTHOU HI
Kiteenna tuh Krist leh a Saptuam kizopna etsakna a bawl ahi. Pathian lunggeel ah saptuam phuhkhiat diing leilung pianma pek apan in ana omden hi (Eph.1:22-23). Huai Pathian tangtawn thilgeel Krist in a lamkhiat A saptuam toh A Saptuam mite kizopna hong om diing tuh kiteenna a Zi leh Pasal kizopna ah Pathian in ana taaklang hi. Sawltak Paul in Ephesa khua a Krist Saptuamte kiang a alaikhak ah, “Pasalte aw, Krist in a saptuam a it a, asik a akipiak bang in na zite chiat uh it un” chin thupiak ana pia hi (Eph. 5:25). Huchi mahbang in numei kiang ah, “Krist thunuai a na kitahlut bangbang un bangkim ah noumau pasalte chiat thunuai ah kitahlut in om un” chih thupiak ana pia hi (Eph. 5:24).
- KITEENNA TUH OMSAN (TUP LEH NGIIM) KICHIANTAK TOH SIAMKHOP AHIH ZIAKIN A SIANGTHOU HI
Kiteenna tuh Pathian patkhiat ahih banah, omsan poimohtak toh siamkhiat ahi a, a omsan leh tuppen theiloupi a mawk maingal a, mawk bawl theih ahikei hi. Kiteenna in a omsan poimoh mahmah-te a nuai ah kitaaklang hi: –
1. Inkuan/ Family bawlkhiat— INKUAN I chih chiang in, a sung a mite genna ahi deuh hi. Numei khat leh pasal khat kiteenna a gawmkhop a om in, Pathian thukhun a kaankhop in om ua, hong teengkhawm ua, hiai tungtawn in inkuan bawlkhiat in om hi. Hiai kizopna sung ah gil a gah goutan a vualzawlna tang bang a om a, huai hamphatna tang tektek lou inkuan leng om thei hi.
2. Insung/Home bawlkhiat — INSUNG I chih chiang in huai a teengkhawm inkuan a hinkhua/kizopna bawlkhiat a ompen genna ahi. Inkuan om ziakin insung kichi omthei a, tua insung ah Pathian deihdan kizopna leh kisinsakna omsak diing kiteenna in a tup leh omsan ahi.
3. Kristian Insung (Christian Home) — Khovel a mihing tengteng huapkim diing a kiteenna dan bawl ahi. Himahleh inkuan sung a nupate Kristian a hihtuak chiang un, huai insung tuh Kristian inkuan/insung kichi thei phet hi. Hiai bang insung ah Pathian deihdan tuppen a nei in, huai diing a kisinsakna munpi poimoh pen hong suak hi.
4. Numei leh pasal kal a sa-utna omte tangtunna mun diing a bawl ahi: Pathian in numei leh pasal a siam in sa-utna neihtheihna toh ana siamkhawm hi. Himahleh tua sa-utna pen kiteenna huangsung keleu a suk buchin diing in leng ana geel khawm ngal hi. Hiai toh kisai Sawltakpi Paul in hichi bang in gen hi. “Tu in, na thilgelh thute uh zaw: Pasal a diing in numei khoihlouh ahoih hi. Himahleh kingaihna a omnak ziak in pasal chih in amah zi chiat nei henla, numei chih in leng amah pasal chiat nei hen. Pasal in a zi kiang ah a tan diing hun pia hen; huchi mah bang in zi in leng a pasal kiang ah a tan diing hun pesam hen. Zi in amah sapum tung ah thu a neikei a, a pasal in thu a neizaw hi; huchi mahbang in pasal in leng amah sapum tung ah thu a neikei a, a zi in thu a neizaw hi.”(1 Kor. 7:1-4).
5. Chi suang ding, Khang kibansam om louhna diing: Kiteenna masapen leh inkuan masapen a patkhiat toh kiton in Nupa masapen Adam leh Evi kiang ah Pathian in, “Hong pung semsem unla, gahphatak in hong om un” chi hi (Gen. 1:28). Pathian in numei khat leh pasal khat kia ana siam a, huaite apan leitung maikaih luahsuak diing bul munkhat apan namchih a hong piangkhia hi (Acts 17:26). Numei naupang lam deuhte pasal nei a ta suang diing in Paul in thupia hi (I Tim. 5:14). Tate suang a kep piiching diing tuh tunglam apan hong pai kiteenna tungtawn a nasep suah diing mohpuakna ahi.
5. KITHUAHPIH DIING, KITUAHPIH LAWM HOIHPEN OMNA MUN DIA BAWL AHIH ZIAKIN A SIANGTHOU HI
Laigelhtu minthang William Lyon Phe in hichi in ana gen hi. “Leitung a kipahna leh lungkimna sangpen omtheihna mun tuh kiteenna ahi. Pasal kua hiam kiteenna a kipahna nei tuh thil dang teng ah lohsam mah leh, mi lohching ahi. Huan pasal kiteenna a lohching lou tuh thil dang tengteng ah loching mahleh mi lohsam ahi veve hi.”
Khovel a nuntakna bulpi leh kigakna tuh nu-pa (numei leh pasal ) in a bawl khop uh inkuan ah om hi. Numei leh pasal a om chitchiatna in hinna kingakna suangphum bawl hi. Mihingte siam a a omlai un pasal kia hiam, numei kia hiam siam ana hita leh, bangchi dinmun in a om de aw! Ngaihsut tham ching hi. Nupa hinkhua zatkhawmna ah poimoh lawm hoih penpen piangkhia hi. Hinkhua a kipahna leh lungtaina bukim om theihna diing in hiai nupa hinkhua a kibawllem tuah touhdet poimoh ahihna zong kilang hi. (Gen. 2:18; cf. I Tim 4:1-3).
- KITEENNA TUH PASAL KHAT LEH NUMEI KHAT SA KHAT SUAHNA AHIH ZIAKIN A SIANGTHOU HI (Matt. 19:6; Gen. 2:18).
Kiteenna a etteh diing limlah; sakhat a kigawmna leh nuntakkhawmna tuh kigawmna masapen Adam leh Eve ah patkhiat in ana om hi. Huaiziakin, amau tuamtuak a a-omchiang un a bukimlou ahi uhi. Laigelhtu minthang Bowman in nupate sakhat hihna hichi in ana gen hi: “Tahbi leh a honna (key & lock) in a pankhop chiang un naseem thei ua, a tuam tuak in zatna diing omlou hi. A tuam tuak ahi ua, khat zaw sam amah kia a bukim a omkei hi. Khat panmun khat in va thakhek thei lou ua, a lian zaw tuam omlou in, a poimoh zaw tuam leng omlou uhi. A manphat dan uh amau nasep diing a seh bangbang a teh diing ahi a, kibuptuah in ki-awnghuk tuah uhi.” Nu-pa hihna leng huchi bang ahi. Benjamin Franklin in tangkhat a om pasal tuh temteh (scissor) langbei toh tehkhin hi.
A SIANTHOUNA BANG A KITEENNA ZAHTAKLOUH A HUAISIA
A sianthouna theichian masa loupi a kiteenna mawk maituahna in kiteenna in a huapkhak mohpuakna leh thukhun omte palzutna tun a, huai in nupa kal kilemlouhna leh kimaakna tanpha tunsek hi. Kiteenna lopsapna tuh dan nih in khen theih hi.
Khatna ah: Kimaa hilou napi a kiteenna puakgik bang a pua kenkawm kawm a kiteenna
Nihna ah: Kimaakna tan tun kituahlouhna.
Pathian in kiteenna a bawl in nupate kipahna leh vualzawlna diing tampi toh ana tunkhop ahi. A bawltu pa deihdan hilou a kizopna leh huai kiteenna zaakkual sung a zi leh pasal mohpuaknate zuihlouhna ziak a kituak lou pipi a hakkol puakkhopna tuh lohsapna khat ahi. Phatuamngaih suahna ziak lel a kiteng tentan hilou a, huai kiteenna sung a kipahna leh vualzawlnate zalzou kawm a khat leh khat salam leh khalam a kilamtou a omna tuh kiteenna lohchinna ahi.